how can I pray, to whom or what?

Yes how can I pray? Whay do I think praying has any practical function in a world like this... a far away war. Horribly killing blody war, killing randomly even children.
I experience there is a god. This god has not any special sex. Its situated in the heart. It it though the heart is a being... a special very giving and loving being that called forth this unity of aæll these different kind of organism togeather... in the sea originally... it called for a cooperration.. an dance... we cells we dance togeather in harmony and therefor we benefit this that we can do more to stay alife than if we are all alone... we will be stronger and more alife and more sensitive and persistent if we stay togeather than if we just swim away and stay seperated. And all the other beings... perhaps closly related but with different experiences... ok the agree and form a multyform called fish.. rat... man... and the heart is there at the center taking care everybody has enouch to eat... distributing the food,.. and energy... this is a big task.. or the chest in general with the lungs... then the brain was introduced as a preliminary memorybank and "solutions" that the heat has been choosing through the times and presents this only now and then to the heart.. almost like man og women roles in a relationship... anyway this heart is very kind and want all to be well.. so the heart has more seacret and all cells actually and materia... the heart is good at talking to other hearts... telepathicly... instantly... but only hearts that are awayke... that is the attention is in the chest.. the awereness is resting itself in the feeling of the heart... then u are connecten... it can be painful if there has been a rough roud... many wounds in the heart can end in a heart attack... that it gets to heard for the heart... but this is also because we forget to relax... and feel this in quietness... meditate.. just feel the breath... and the heart... and what the heart feels... then u are in a network of hearts... and this is god.

This network is god. Telepathic network of open kind hearts who want goodness.

My father used to say, "god is living in nthe heart of the people"

Then if someone starts to pray the other heartcells feel this and they start to send a call for the energy and to send positive energy around where the prayer was directed ... this is called god has answered me or god talks to me... heals me and takes care of me... many names for this grace. Thats way praying works. Yes people can come into this energygrid and the can fall out of it. They can also connet energywise in other ways... in any cell o part of the body or the energybody in and all around in the aura.